“Well, here it is at last — the book women have longed for and men have dreaded!
Over the course of my career I would have worked with, counseled and lectured to literally thousands of couples in workshops and seminars. On each occasion, I have told them I’m threatening to write a book entitled: How Men Screw Up Relationships.”
Excerpt From: Patrick McNally PhD. “PART 1 HOW TO DISCOVER WHO YOU ARE AND HOW YOU RELATE TO OTHERS.” Apple Books.
How To Find Your Perfect Partner.
PCSP stands for Personal Criteria Selection Process and it’s what this chapter is all about. This selection process is what humans do, often subconsciously, when they go searching for a mate. I’m going to show you how it works and then I’m going to ask you to work on your own PCSP.
Repetition is the mother of skill — which means I’m going to remind you as often as I can about important aspects of my message in this book. One of those massively important things is this: take action.
When you and your partner decided to either marry or move in with each other, you both made a commitment. At the early part of your relationship I imagine it may have been easy to make that commitment, but what will happen as you both move through the relationship? How will each of you change as you both grow old together?
Many things can change in a relationship over time: the colour of your hair, your waistline, your finances, your self-esteem and self-confidence, the place you live, or even the food you eat. I know I don’t eat the same size meals I did when I was a seventeen year old, when five burgers in one sitting were par for the course. Today it’s smaller servings, fresh fruit and farm-grown salads. So changes are inevitable, you just need to accept that and work together at enjoying those changes.
But what happens when your relationship goes a little stale?
Inside this 3rd book in his Relationship Series Patrick gives you a smorgasbord of delicious strategies that will have your spouse salivating after you :-).
In my humble opinion the number one reason people break up is the overwhelming feeling that either one or both must be right … about anything or everything and at any cost. They will argue forever that they are right, which means you must be wrong. And the stupid thing about all of this is that arguments normally leave both you and your partner feeling terrible.
Ask yourself was it really worth it being right all the time. I’d rather be happy than right!
When a relationship ends it’s painful…sometimes very painful, but one thing I know with certainty is…… eventually you will move on and live your life.